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[[File:Copinglink.png|thumb|The Copinglink flag<ref name="beyond-mogai">{{Citation|url=https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/152787774845/copingkincopinglink-pride-flag|title=Copingkin/Copinglink Pride Flag|author=beyond-mogai-pride-flags|date=November 5th, 2016}}</ref>]] |
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[[File:Copinglink.png|thumb|The Copinglink flag]] |
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[[File:Otherlink.png|thumb|The otherlink flag<ref name="dozth">{{Citation|url=https://www.tumblr.com/beyond-mogai-pride-flags/183329876720/clownsonaz-flags-otherkin-fictionkin?source=share|author=dozth-deactivated20190710|date=March 9, 2019|title=Flags (reblog)}}</ref>]] |
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A '''copinglink''' (sometimes shortened to c'link) is a type of [[otherlink]] adopted as a coping mechanism for trauma, stress, mental illness, or any other ailment.<ref name=":0">{{Citation|url=https://who-is-page.tumblr.com/post/139871297049/clinkers-and-copinglink|author=who-is-page|title=C’linkers and Copinglink|date=February 23rd, 2016}}</ref> Someone who has a copinglink is referred to as a copinglinker or a c'linker. |
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A '''copinglink''' or '''otherlink''' (also know as a c'link, 'link, or linktype) is a voluntarily, intentionally adopted [[Otherkin|nonhuman]] or [[Fictionkin|fictitious]] identity. The identity may be adopted by anyone, and for a number of reasons, of which coping with adversity is only one.<ref name="who-is-page">{{Citation|url=https://who-is-page.tumblr.com/post/139871297049/clinkers-and-copinglink|author=who-is-page|title=C’linkers and Copinglink|date=February 23rd, 2016}}</ref> Someone who has a copinglink is referred to as a copinglinker, c'linker, or otherlinker.<ref>{{Citation|url=http://victiim-of-changes.tumblr.com/post/170162038800/otherlinkers-are-not-kin-but-voluntary|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20180325235532/http://victiim-of-changes.tumblr.com/post/170162038800/otherlinkers-are-not-kin-but-voluntary|author=victiim-of-changes|date=January 26, 2018|title=Otherlinkers are not "Kin but voluntary"}}</ref><ref name="chordata">{{Citation|url=https://www.tumblr.com/chordata-on-alterhumanity/653317695202263040/the-chordata-guide-to-otherlinking|title=The Chordata Guide to Otherlinking|author=chordata-on-alterhumanity|date=June 7, 2021}}</ref> |
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== Experiences == |
== Experiences == |
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Copinglinker experiences may vary as there are different reasons why someone may create a copinglink. Some may choose to do so to cope with trauma, particularly aspects related to identity confusion or dissociation which may occur after trauma,<ref>{{Citation|url=https://safeharborim.com/trauma-and-identity|author=Bethany Fischer|title=Trauma and Identity: Who Am I?|date=June 25th, 2020}}</ref> dysphoria,<ref>{{Citation|url=https://theblacksands.tumblr.com/post/697754447567290368/piloting-avatars|author=The Black Sands|title=Piloting Avatars|date=October 10th, 2022}}</ref> or mental illness. |
Copinglinker experiences may vary as there are different reasons why someone may create a copinglink. Some may choose to do so to cope with trauma, particularly aspects related to identity confusion or dissociation which may occur after trauma,<ref>{{Citation|url=https://safeharborim.com/trauma-and-identity|author=Bethany Fischer|title=Trauma and Identity: Who Am I?|date=June 25th, 2020}}</ref> dysphoria,<ref>{{Citation|url=https://theblacksands.tumblr.com/post/697754447567290368/piloting-avatars|author=The Black Sands|title=Piloting Avatars|date=October 10th, 2022}}</ref> or mental illness. |
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Copinglinkers may be chose for their links to be a temporary identity until it is no longer needed, or they may choose it to be more long term or even with the intention for it to be permanent. Some may also use the term copinglink while still having an involuntary identity because that identity was formed as a coping mechanism.{{Citation Needed}} |
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=== Forming a copinglink === |
=== Forming a copinglink === |
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A key aspect to copinglinks is the focus on identity molding, where [[otherkin]] tend to focus more on identity discovery. |
A key aspect to copinglinks is the focus on identity molding, where [[otherkin]] tend to focus more on identity discovery. |
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For some copinglinkers, a link may take time to form with more of a conscious effort.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://otherlinks.tumblr.com/post/179051819660/how-do-you-form-an-otherlink|author=Voluntary Identity Hub|title=How do you form an otherlink?|date=October 14th, 2018}}</ref> Some might take on traits of a fictional character, animal, or similar when going through a panic attack, flashback, or similar experience. Copinglinks are sometimes formed for projection, allowing one to direct difficult emotions onto something else. Solidifying oneself into a created identity may be used too as a way to help pass dysphoria or personal frustration. |
Adopting a linktype may differ from person to person, but it tends to follow a similar pattern; it must start with a "want," reinforce or justify that "want," and slowly build a connection with the potential linktype, whether it be through affirmations, behaviors, or something as simple as clothing.<ref name="chordata" /> For some copinglinkers, a link may take time to form with more of a conscious effort.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://otherlinks.tumblr.com/post/179051819660/how-do-you-form-an-otherlink|author=Voluntary Identity Hub|title=How do you form an otherlink?|date=October 14th, 2018}}</ref> Some might take on traits of a fictional character, animal, or similar when going through a panic attack, flashback, or similar experience. Copinglinks are sometimes formed for projection, allowing one to direct difficult emotions onto something else. Solidifying oneself into a created identity may be used too as a way to help pass dysphoria or personal frustration. |
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=== Dropping a copinglink === |
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A copinglink may also happen involuntarily or based on involuntary responses or identities. In addition to kintypes, some may create a copinglink based on an [[otherhearted]] identity. Some copinglinkers might not have entirely voluntary or entirely involuntary links, or not be able to tell.{{Citation Needed}} |
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| ⚫ | For many, it is possible to drop a copinglink if one does not need or want it anymore. For some, this is a difference between copinglinkers and psychological otherkin. It is also possible for a copinglink to fade on its own. There are a few reasons an otherlinker might drop a linktype, from it causing harm to personal preference. The process itself can range from easy affirmations to complex procedures. Sometimes, a copinglink cannot be dropped easily, and it is possible for this to turn into a negative experience.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://otherlinks.tumblr.com/post/179566455375/dropping-a-linktype|author=Voluntary Identity Hub|title=Dropping a Linktype|date=October 29th, 2018}}</ref><ref>{{Citation|url=https://flock-of-changes.tumblr.com/post/179620084370/dropping-a-linktype|title=Dropping a Linktype|author=link-for-link|date=October 31, 2018}}</ref> |
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=== Copinglinks over time === |
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| ⚫ | For many, it is possible to drop a copinglink if one does not need or want it anymore. For some, this is a difference between copinglinkers and psychological otherkin. It is also possible for a copinglink to fade on its own. Sometimes, a copinglink cannot be dropped easily, and it is possible for this to turn into a negative experience.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://otherlinks.tumblr.com/post/179566455375/dropping-a-linktype|author=Voluntary Identity Hub|title=Dropping a Linktype|date=October 29th, 2018}}</ref> |
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A copinglink can become a permanent identity, whether by choice or involuntarily. In these cases, one may identify as choicekin, otherfix or otherspin, or otherkin. Some may also keep the identity of copinglink regardless of current control.{{Citation Needed}} |
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== History == |
== History == |
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The term copinglink was coined by Tumblr user who-is-page in late 2015.<ref name=" |
The term copinglink was coined by Tumblr user who-is-page in late 2015.<ref name="who-is-page" /> The term was coined in response to the trend of copingkin, which were people who said they chose to be kin to cope often to deflect from accusations of racism or sexism.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://dragonsroost.neocities.org/essay/kfftestimony.pdf|author=The Dragonheart Collective|title=The Dragonheart Collective’s Testimony on the KFF Phenomenon}}</ref> Later, copingkin who used the otherkin label and copinglinkers would later split into separate communities. |
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Another term which was coined for a similar purpose is "fictionheir," which was coined by fromfiction on Tumblr in 2014. It was used to refer to someone who chose to identify as a fictional character with adopting their mannerisms.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://fromfiction.tumblr.com/post/106209149572/hey-i-was-just-gonna-ask-this-to-see-if-anyone|author=From Fiction|title=Anonymous...|date=2015}}</ref> This term failed to catch on to the same extent as copinglink. |
Another term which was coined for a similar purpose is "fictionheir," which was coined by fromfiction on Tumblr in 2014. It was used to refer to someone who chose to identify as a fictional character with adopting their mannerisms.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://fromfiction.tumblr.com/post/106209149572/hey-i-was-just-gonna-ask-this-to-see-if-anyone|author=From Fiction|title=Anonymous...|date=2015}}</ref> This term failed to catch on to the same extent as copinglink. |
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The word "otherlink" emerged to refer to copinglinks adopted for reasons other than coping. It first appeared on the Alt+H Discord server in 2017, being used by Cabra, who preferred the term to alternatives such as ''voluntary association'', and was continually suggested by them whenever the topic of a term for non-coping voluntary identities was discussed. It began to be used by other users, with a #voluntary channel being introduced in the server in October 2017.<ref>{{Citation|url=https://allium.house/sun/creations/alth_coinings.php|title=words coined in the alt+h discord server|author=mordecai midas}}</ref> |
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== Symbols == |
== Symbols == |
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The copinglink flag was made by Tumblr user beyond-mogai-pride-flags on November 5th, 2016,<ref |
The copinglink flag was made by Tumblr user beyond-mogai-pride-flags on November 5th, 2016,<ref name="beyond-mogai" /> but has not received widespread use. The flag's meaning is currently unknown. |
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The otherlink flag was posted by Tumblr user dozth-deactivated20190710 on March 9, 2019. The following describes the intended meaning of the flag, as stated in the original post: |
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* Off-white: Represents humanity |
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* Mint: Represents self-shaping |
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* Cyan: Represents identity |
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* Symbol: Alteration of the Otherkin symbol<ref name="dozth" /> |
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== See also == |
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* [[Otherlink]] |
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== References == |
== References == |
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Revision as of 00:34, 20 May 2024
A copinglink or otherlink (also know as a c'link, 'link, or linktype) is a voluntarily, intentionally adopted nonhuman or fictitious identity. The identity may be adopted by anyone, and for a number of reasons, of which coping with adversity is only one.[3] Someone who has a copinglink is referred to as a copinglinker, c'linker, or otherlinker.[4][5]
Experiences
Copinglinker experiences may vary as there are different reasons why someone may create a copinglink. Some may choose to do so to cope with trauma, particularly aspects related to identity confusion or dissociation which may occur after trauma,[6] dysphoria,[7] or mental illness.
Forming a copinglink
A key aspect to copinglinks is the focus on identity molding, where otherkin tend to focus more on identity discovery.
Adopting a linktype may differ from person to person, but it tends to follow a similar pattern; it must start with a "want," reinforce or justify that "want," and slowly build a connection with the potential linktype, whether it be through affirmations, behaviors, or something as simple as clothing.[5] For some copinglinkers, a link may take time to form with more of a conscious effort.[8] Some might take on traits of a fictional character, animal, or similar when going through a panic attack, flashback, or similar experience. Copinglinks are sometimes formed for projection, allowing one to direct difficult emotions onto something else. Solidifying oneself into a created identity may be used too as a way to help pass dysphoria or personal frustration.
Dropping a copinglink
For many, it is possible to drop a copinglink if one does not need or want it anymore. For some, this is a difference between copinglinkers and psychological otherkin. It is also possible for a copinglink to fade on its own. There are a few reasons an otherlinker might drop a linktype, from it causing harm to personal preference. The process itself can range from easy affirmations to complex procedures. Sometimes, a copinglink cannot be dropped easily, and it is possible for this to turn into a negative experience.[9][10]
History
The term copinglink was coined by Tumblr user who-is-page in late 2015.[3] The term was coined in response to the trend of copingkin, which were people who said they chose to be kin to cope often to deflect from accusations of racism or sexism.[11] Later, copingkin who used the otherkin label and copinglinkers would later split into separate communities.
Another term which was coined for a similar purpose is "fictionheir," which was coined by fromfiction on Tumblr in 2014. It was used to refer to someone who chose to identify as a fictional character with adopting their mannerisms.[12] This term failed to catch on to the same extent as copinglink.
The word "otherlink" emerged to refer to copinglinks adopted for reasons other than coping. It first appeared on the Alt+H Discord server in 2017, being used by Cabra, who preferred the term to alternatives such as voluntary association, and was continually suggested by them whenever the topic of a term for non-coping voluntary identities was discussed. It began to be used by other users, with a #voluntary channel being introduced in the server in October 2017.[13]
Symbols
The copinglink flag was made by Tumblr user beyond-mogai-pride-flags on November 5th, 2016,[1] but has not received widespread use. The flag's meaning is currently unknown.
The otherlink flag was posted by Tumblr user dozth-deactivated20190710 on March 9, 2019. The following describes the intended meaning of the flag, as stated in the original post:
- Off-white: Represents humanity
- Mint: Represents self-shaping
- Cyan: Represents identity
- Symbol: Alteration of the Otherkin symbol[2]
A chain link is sometimes used as a symbol for linking, both in the context of copinglinks and otherlinks.[14]
References
- ↑ 1.0 1.1 beyond-mogai-pride-flags. (November 5th, 2016) "Copingkin/Copinglink Pride Flag"
- ↑ 2.0 2.1 dozth-deactivated20190710. (March 9, 2019) "Flags (reblog)"
- ↑ 3.0 3.1 who-is-page. (February 23rd, 2016) "C’linkers and Copinglink"
- ↑ victiim-of-changes. (January 26, 2018) "Otherlinkers are not "Kin but voluntary"" (Archived version)
- ↑ 5.0 5.1 chordata-on-alterhumanity. (June 7, 2021) "The Chordata Guide to Otherlinking"
- ↑ Bethany Fischer. (June 25th, 2020) "Trauma and Identity: Who Am I?"
- ↑ The Black Sands. (October 10th, 2022) "Piloting Avatars"
- ↑ Voluntary Identity Hub. (October 14th, 2018) "How do you form an otherlink?"
- ↑ Voluntary Identity Hub. (October 29th, 2018) "Dropping a Linktype"
- ↑ link-for-link. (October 31, 2018) "Dropping a Linktype"
- ↑ The Dragonheart Collective. "The Dragonheart Collective’s Testimony on the KFF Phenomenon"
- ↑ From Fiction. (2015) "Anonymous..."
- ↑ mordecai midas. "words coined in the alt+h discord server"
- ↑ Voxel. "Unicode symbols"